something that has taken a long time to conceive, nourish, grow, build and develop can be completely undone.
It’s hard to really identify when you first decide what you want to do in life - what your vocation is to be. It is later in your life, when you truly realize that every single minute of your existence has been spent processing input from every conceivable source (i.e., personal observation, listening, experience, education, training, reading) and stowing pieces of this eclectic knowledge away in your internal memory banks.
Through the years, your mind assembles and reassembles these ever-expanding, and sometimes long-forgotten concepts until you begin to personally define where you believe you fit into the social and vocational structure of life. Some people are good with their hands; others with their minds; others with their voices and a million other possible talents. And it is through applying those talents, in an ideal world, you can transform your job into a career with which you bring a true passion and energy; giving you a sincere sense of purpose. And if you love what you do - and can make it a paying vocation - you can consider yourself successful.
Until.
You can never forget that as human beings, we are all living on this planet simultaneously; and that there will come a time when someone else’s vision of the way the world should be fails to coincide with your personal vision. In a matter of seconds, EVERYTHING you took for granted about what you have achieved can be destroyed.
If you believe you are in a position where you are successful and the world is your oyster, imagine for a moment that driving your Porsche home from work one Friday evening, after a long hard week at work, you are run off the road by someone who happened to doze off behind the wheel. As a result of your car hitting a tree at 60 miles per hour, you end up paralyzed and confined to a wheelchair for the rest of your life. It really doesn’t matter if your accident was intentional or not - YOUR LIFE HAS BEEN ALTERED.
Should it have happened? Could you have avoided it? Will the driver be caught and punished? The answers to these questions really don’t matter. What DOES matter is that YOU must decide where you take your life from here.
Your life is always ahead of you. Your past continues to provide you with input and knowledge from which you will make your future choices.
Choose life.